The Unpaid Consultant

Michele Warg
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Over the last twenty-five years I have heard more than my share of bad ideas when it comes to effective selling. Here is the worst one that I have ever come across: “Don’t be an unpaid consultant”. I was recently reminded of this when I was asked to participate in a phone conference involving one of my clients. The company had a number of their senior executives together for a meeting, and they asked me if I would be willing to join their group for a teleconference during my lunch hour. Here’s the “catch”, if you prefer to think of it that way: there was no offer of payment for my time; this was “free work” in the form of giving advice. Yes, I was being asked to be the Unpaid Consultant. And, as always, I welcomed the opportunity. You see, I strongly disagree with the idea that you should avoid being an “unpaid consultant” when you are in sales. In fact, in my opinion, you should do just the opposite. You should strive, every day, to be the Unpaid Consultant. Here’s my rationale. Customers form their strongest relationships with people who give the most value. In today’s selling environment, what you sell – be it a product or service – is, in itself, the least valuable thing that you offer. In fact, it is probably viewed by most buyers as a commodity. Whether you are a car salesman, a financial advisor, a copier rep, a lawyer, or a plumber, customers can get what you sell from dozens of other people who offer the same thing. In a me-too world, good advice – ideas that help customers to make better decisions – trumps, by a wide margin, the value of your “wares”. Which brings me back to sales people. The highest compliment that a customer can ever pay you is to confer upon you the title of “Unpaid Consultant”. To want your opinion when they are not buying. To value your knowledge enough to want to take advantage of your expertise. Examples: If you sell automobiles, to get your opinion on which of a competitor’s two models is a better choice for a child going to college. If you sell newspaper advertising, whether you would recommend radio or cable television as a better investment for reaching a target audience. If you sell printing, your thoughts on whether a new ink is appropriate for a packaging project that doesn’t actually involve you. The point is this: people don’t ask for input from those whose opinion they do not value. When a customer asks for your advice under these circumstances, the message is loud and clear: they view you as an expert. Give the request your very best effort, every time. I assure you, you will be rewarded many times over. Among my vendor relationships, there is a small group of vendors whose advice I place a high value on. These are also the people with whom I do eighty percent of my business. One of these is my CPA. I have utilized this same professional for my business for over ten years. She is in private practice and lives five hundred miles from my office. Yes, I could find another CPA who is local to help my business – in fact, I could line them around the block seven or eight times. I could also save money by doing so – her fees are higher than most of those in her profession. So why do I swear loyalty to her? It certainly isn’t because she provides bookkeeping services and prepares financial reports. That’s a commodity – any CPA firm provides that. No, what I value is her mind – her ability to analyze my business and make recommendations that help me to manage it. To me, this is irreplaceable. Yes, much of her time with me is billed, but many times her advice is unbilled, as well. She is a very good sales person (she cold-called me to get my business) and has excellent interpersonal skills. She is a good listener, and even puts up with my annual whining during tax season. In other words, she understands the value of being the Unpaid Consultant. If I changed my CPA relationship, I would not have her to work with anymore – and that idea distresses me greatly, as you will see. A couple of years ago, her business had grown to the point that she sent all of her clients, including me, a form letter informing us that she was going to have to trim her client list to lessen her workload. In other words, some of us were going to have to go. My reaction to this announcement? Sheer panic. I called her immediately. I begged to make the cut! I pleaded. I stammered. I reminded her that I have a simple business and am easy to work with and always pay on time and … and…and…you get the idea. She laughed and assured me that I had nothing to worry about; her focus was on reducing her workload with more complex businesses that were taking a lot of her time. Relieved, I hung up the phone. Then I thought – WOW. I am the customer, and here I am begging this vendor: please, please - continue to take my money! Does this describe the relationship that you have with your customers? How valuable are you to them? Do they depend on you for giving them direction, or are you an order-taking commodity? In my business, every time that a sales person asks me, “what would you like to do?” I want to say “why are you asking me? I thought that you were the expert.” I never say that, of course, but it is what I am thinking. Don’t ask me for my opinion; I’m paying you for yours. Be confident and assertive. Tell me what you think I should do. In other words, be the Unpaid Consultant. © 2010 Landy Chase, author of Competitive Selling: Out-Plan, Out-Think and Out-Sell to Win Every Time Author Bio Landy Chase, author of Competitive Selling: Out-Plan, Out-Think, and Out-Sell to Win Every Time, founded his own sales training and consulting firm in 1993 and has clients in more than sixty industries on five different continents. He has delivered more than two thousand paid presentations as a professional speaker and holds the Certified Speaking Professional (CPS) designation from the National Speakers Association, the highest earned level of excellence in the industry. He lives in Charlotte, North Carolina. For more information please visit

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  • Bob Strong
    Bob Strong
    I feel like these consultants should become a financial advisor in North Carolina. That would really help them out.
  • Nibby
    Very true! It's a change to see someone spell it out like that.
  • Lynn
    This has made my day. I wish all postings were this good.
  • Kayo
    You've solved all my problems
  • Gregory D.
    Gregory D.
    Thank you for sharing; this info is nicely stated.  This is a classic example of a valuable service that we all have or aspire to develop with all peers.  Too often, we lose track of these valuable peer contact opportunities, perhaps more than we may care to admit.  Thank you for sharing and providing me the opportunity to re-establish myself as the 'unpaid consultant' with anyone who potentially may desire my input.  Thank you again and have a great day!

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